Friday, July 27, 2018

THOUGHTS ON OUR CURRENT NATIONAL CRISIS

“It is always patriotic to protest wrongdoing.”

As a 73­-years-young witness to the 50’s, 60’s, 70’s, 80’s ,90’s, and beyond, I have seen the Republicans in our current Congress abandon morality for fealty to their rich corporate donors, and have witnessed too many of them behave like the citizens in the Emperors’ New Clothes, none of whom could admit that their leader had fallen for a scam and believed his tailor’s magic talents dressed him in the best of the best…when in fact he was traipsing around in the nude. No one but a clear-thinking child had the courage to say exactly what he saw!

This is how the Republican Congress has behaved under Trump, with a decreasing percentage of US citizens who support them.  The Republicans repaid their wealthy donors with a tax bill that will eventually put over 90% of the country’s assets in the hands of the 1%.

The Republican Congress has ignored the facts outlined in The Dangerous Case of Donald Trump. This book, written by 27 of our country’s esteemed mental health professionals, provides their learned analysis of Trump’s mental illness and the danger it poses to our country.

Trump’s team tried to obstruct justice in January of 2018 by hiding evidence given to congress about actual recorded phone calls proving criminal associations between the Trump administration and Russian agents; the facts were recently released by Senator Diane Feinstein in defiance of Republicans who are colluding with the crimes of the administration.

Corruption destroys democracies. Mexico’s government has never achieved true democratic representation of the people’s needs and values due to criminal corruption, and the country is set to explode due to overpopulation, religious discouragement of family planning, and the poverty-driven increase in criminal recruits.

The American Dream is dependent on a system that supports the rule of law in a democracy designed to include all our citizens in the health, education, and self-actualization that comes from a united citizenry. Only patently ignorant or selfish people deny the value added to our communities through public support for higher education. Millions of people are ready, willing, and able to contribute greatly to our country’s fiscal health and growth, if we can contribute to their education and training.

To respect civil rights for all citizens, we must demand equal rights for the half of our citizens who are employed: women. Our economy and our culture will benefit greatly. Regardless of our political party, we must have the right to equal pay for equal work and an educational and work environment free of sexual harassment from male co-workers. The right to control our reproduction and health care choices should never be taken from us. The Pew Research Center on Religion and Public Life states “As of 2017, public support for legal abortion remains as high as it has been in two decades of polling. Currently, 57% say abortion should be legal in all or most cases.” With Justice Kennedy retiring from the Supreme Court, the Trump plan is to replace him with a justice who will swing the court’s vote against Roe v. Wade and deny legal abortion in the US. Less than 22% of voters want to impose their minority religious beliefs onto citizens who do not share their views. Since they can’t win fairly at the polls, they want to override it by putting religious extremists on the Supreme Court.

I had two unplanned pregnancies for which I chose adoption over abortion. I never heard any woman say an abortion altered the course of her life (except botched illegal abortions) but thousands of women say adoption did just that. Why? Because of the huge difference in grief experienced, the lack of expert counseling, the social stigma, and the adoption industry’s bias toward adoptive parents’ comfort and security over the birthmother’s instinctive drive to know how her child is doing in their adoptive home. Adoption was my choice in 1963 because abortion was illegal. Adoption was my choice in 1974 because initially I was planning to marry and raise my daughter, but marriage plans changed when I was too far along to consider abortion. I was not willing to raise my child alone. It had nothing to do with religious beliefs.

Women will never be in control of their futures if they are denied control of their reproduction. The anti-abortion movement was initially driven by the Catholic church, and evangelical Christians who believe a man is the unquestioned leader of the family, and the woman’s role is subservient to his. The woman’s “godly” role is to stay home and have children, supplementing income where possible, but not in any full-time equally paid profession. Women without economic power, like my mother who never worked outside the home, are often forced to stay in unhealthy marriages because they can’t duplicate the standard of living they currently have if they choose to live independently. Considering that over half of first marriages fail, as do 67% of second marriages, and 73% of third marriages, it has been hypothesized that women’s financial independence as they age, makes them less dependent on marriage. (Psychology Today, Mark Banschick, M.D. 2012).

Women’s rights are a subset of civil rights. No one can say they love this country if they refuse to support civil rights and education for all its citizens. Discrimination produces conflict and violence. Without unity, we devolve out of a true democracy, into a predator-prey paradigm. Many short-sighted people are forgetting that our only viable competitive edge for leadership in the global economy, fostering global health and welfare, is our unified support for civil rights within the country and protection of free nations around the globe.

If you are sounding the alarm with your representatives in government, if you are working to elect legislators and policy makers who support the programs that educate, unite, heal, and protect our environment, our infrastructure, our diverse citizenry, our partnerships with democracies around the world, then––at this sensitive point in history––you are contributing to the survival of the United States of America. If you are young, don’t be politically passive. When my generation has passed on, you will have to set limits on greed, violence and corruption, inside and outside of your government, or the protections you desire for your career and your family will be lost.

If you are feeling victimized by hurtful, greedy and immoral people, hang out with survivors and overcomers…people who have learned how to get their power back. If you identify as a victim, you will recover at a snail’s pace. How do you know if you are stuck in a victim mentality? If you’re chronically angry, resentful, bitter, and judgmental, you are either in the first few years of a PTSD response, or you are prolonging your vulnerability with destructive beliefs, opinions, and expectations. There is no experience from which we cannot heal if we learn how to focus our thoughts and emotions into constructive action.

If you are reading this, you are in the minority…most people don’t read the entirety of any book they begin! (Okay, maybe you’re one of those who peeks at the end before you begin). Either way, go a bit further, especially if you enjoy the idea of evolving into the higher powers available to you. You will find references to ideas and books that invite you to view your humanity and your evolution as an adventure in expanding consciousness, instead of a day-to-day encounter with a consciousness-narrowing version of pre-digested religious dogma. If the mystical life is nothing new to you, then you really are a rare bird…keep flying high!

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